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What This “Nice Guy” Thinks of Phone Sex or The Art Of Vocal Seduction

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If you have never given a woman an orgasm with your voice alone, you do NOT know what you’re missing. 😉

While everyone seems to be hooked on sexting, I would rather hear her moaning and know what I’m doing is working if phone sex is the only option or just a fun thing to try with a woman you’re involved with.

There’s nothing worse than an hour of sexting when you actually believe she’s into it or “getting off” only to find out she was doing the dishes or playing some freaking game the entire time.

Yes, both of those have happened to me. 🙂

My advice would be to…

Get her on the phone when she’s turned on and make sure it’s actually happening and then make it “really” happen. You know what I mean.

Of course THIS needs to be said…

While having a vocal exchange with a woman has its place and can be relatively good “clean” fun, rewarding, and interesting, it’s NOT really a permanent substitute for the real thing, is it?

Yes, I understand some women will NEVER do it or at least say they would never do it.

Truth be told though, it’s like everything else when a woman says, “I would never do that!” because with the right guy, the right time, and when she’s caught up in a heated moment, women have been known to join in and do much MUCH more.

After all, compared to some other things like taking it in the butt or swallowing, phone sex is not really that bad… is it?

What do “other” nice guys really think of seducing a woman vocally or phone sex in general?

  • Is it something you’ve done? Maybe once…. and how did it go?
  • If you have done it, how quickly did you get IT to happen?
  • Are you afraid she’ll think you’re sleazy?
  • Do you think it will make her feel slutty?
  • Does it (or do you believe) it will feel too uncomfortable or unnatural?

Personally I believe it’s a skill EVERY NICE GUY should learn IMMEDIATELY.

First I would suggest you work on your voice so it sexually appealing – Here’s How To Make Your Voice Attractive & More Memorable To Women.

“Nice guys” have some obvious problems when it comes to attracting women and this skill can help in some not so obvious ways.

Nice guys tend to hook up long distance WAY too much. It’s the online thing where they don’t meet face to face and it allows them to (sort of) be at their best.

Let’s be real here – if you start with an email (and a picture) you have time to choose your words carefully. When you go to chatting in real-time, you still have a little time to not screw it all up. I suppose “video chatting” or “face time” doesn’t count here but you get the picture.

It was taught to me how to practice online first.

Experiment a little or try new things out where it doesn’t matter so much. This has since changed a little but if you’re smart enough, it can still be done.

Another common (nice guy) problem is a lack of sexual experiences with many women and/or a complete lack of confidence in their sexual abilities.

The solution is to learn the art of vocal seduction.

Trust me when I say if you have any doubts about your ability to please a woman, this skill will erase them quickly.

Imagine if your voice alone can get her off, face to face, when you have so much more to work with, yeah – it’s a no brainer.

One more reason to learn it is…. because you’ll be able to bring it to REAL bed with you.

Yes. I’m talking about “Dirty talk” in bed.

If you can do it on the phone, you can certainly use this skill face to face.

Learn to have phone sex and you’ll not only help yourself with some attractive skills but also because:

  • Women can be turned sexually with your voice alone. It adds to your seductive abilities.
  • Women  are very fantasy based when it comes to reaching their orgasm. Create a fantasy with her. Bring her in with you and you’ll learn more about a woman’s sexual process than you might during “regular” sex.
  • Prove to yourself (if you’re not confident in bed) that you ARE capable or turning on a woman in more ways than just penetration. This is a form of foreplay.
  • Dirty talk is a real thing and lots of couples enjoy it. Practice it on the phone and bring it to bed with you.
  • Help spice up the long distance relationships too many nice guys find themselves in.
Here are a few great programs to help you learn how to seduce a woman with your voice. Learn The Art of Vocal & Phone Seduction – Outside Resources Only. Pick one which will work best for you.

Are you ready for some dirt on me and MY answers to the questions above, assuming I actually AM a nice guy… 😉

Great-Sex

I have done it more times than I can say but I have not counted. It’s not something I would use a ticker.

Let’s just say there have been numerous times with many, many different women.

One of my most “memorable” or rather strange moments came with this incredibly hot woman. She was (sort of) showing off her extremely large tits on one of “those” sites. I say “sort of” because it was a relatively clean site and nudity was NOT allowed. So yeah, she was covered up.

Anyways, EVERY guy was trying to get with her and you could see it. You could also see her bat away each and every one of them. It was actually fun to watch.

How I managed to get her on the phone so quickly remains MY secret but I will say, I did it because I didn’t trust that she was real. I figured I’d get her on some instant messaging thing, get a few real pictures, pictures she just took proving who she was, and then get her on the phone.

My aim was to assure she was real. I did not want to waste my time blabbing away with some dude or some fake chic. That’s for sure!

She had an amazing voice and she was all too eager to chat. Minutes into our conversation she admitted my voice was turning her on and it was something she didn’t expect. She just figured she’d be talking with a guy just to “get to know”. Believe it or not.

She was out to have fun and meet some new people.

What we both did not expect was the phone sex BUT it happened anyways. (Granted the whole process DID take a few weeks.)

The quickest I ever “made” it happen was just under fifteen minutes. The same process. See her. See she was online at the time. Send a quick message. Get her on an instant message thing. Get her to prove she was real.

All of that was achieved quickly because apparently, she was already getting there and I had found her at that PERFECT moment. Lucky me. Yes. Definitely.

BUT once I got her on the phone… luck had nothing to do with it. 😉

I don’t find myself sleazy at all for doing or trying it at all. In fact I find it cleaner than actual sex because it’s safer. (Generally speaking of course because I did “hook up with a married woman once or twice and that’s normally not safe.)

I would NEVER accuse or assume a woman was a slut for trying it but I will say, during those heated moments, some women actually enjoy feeling a little slutty.

It’s all part of the seduction.

Knowing when, how, how far to go, what she likes, what fantasies she wants to experience, what really turns on women, and so on… Something I would suggest you go to this guy to learn those kind of details –> Phone Sex Revealed – Learn How To Turn On Women.

Surprisingly, I was totally comfortable and felt comfortable doing it the first time. One reason why I probably kept doing it.

It just sort of happened and it wasn’t planned at all.

For a few women however, they were very uncomfortable about everything (the social dysfunctional types included) and I realized that was a stumbling block to get past – make her FEEL comfortable talking to me and letting things happen naturally at a very natural pace for both of us.

For some – it’s a slow pace. For others it’s almost instantaneous.

There’s no trick to learning the process.

All we really need to do is to learn about a woman’s sexual process and do things to bring the best out of her.

Now it’s your turn…

What do “other” nice guys really think of seducing a woman vocally or phone sex in general?

  • Is it something you’ve done? Maybe once…. and how did it go?
  • If you have done it, how quickly did you get IT to happen?
  • Are you afraid she’ll think you’re sleazy?
  • Do you think it will make her feel slutty?
  • Does it (or do you believe) it will feel too uncomfortable or unnatural?

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