You know the saying, “It’s not always what you say but how you say it.” … well today let’s talk about HOW you can be seen as an attractive guy or even create some real attraction in women with just your voice alone or:
… What it takes to make your voice more memorable and attractive.
(This is NOT how to talk to women or what to talk about, this is about using your words and voice.)
First it must be said, The actual words ARE important, don’t let anyone tell you anything different.
Think of it this way..
If you were to babble on endlessly while making little sense or forming incoherent sentences you’ll quickly notice the words do matter. Others will not take you so seriously. They might not ever believe a word you’re even saying. Not a good thing.
If you were to use extremely large unknown words, whether it’s who you are or not, you’ll also notice how the words DO matter. Others might see you as arrogant. They might feel you’re talking down to them. They’ll get a sense that you believe you’re better than them. Also not an attractive thing.
However, through your vocal inflections or HOW they are said, most people will understand what you’re trying to say or the point you’re trying to get across.
We just don’t need ALL the words to understand the emotional impact of speech or communication or how we convey our personality.
When it comes to being an attractive guy, HOW you present those few words or HOW YOU SAY THEM ARE extremely important.
Here are some thing I want you to start doing immediately:
Generally speaking (pun intended) slow, calculated speech IS more attractive than fast choppy non-descriptive sentences.
Choose your words carefully. Remove unnecessary parts.
Deliver your well chosen words with inflection and articulation OR vocally express emotion with patience and passion.
Capture your listener and leave them hanging on your every word.
Speak slowly. Strengthen your words by enunciating them properly.
Speak clearly and make sure your voice can be heard. Avoid mumbling or screaming unless the situation calls for it. (Okay, mumbling only works if you’re mocking her AND it makes her laugh.)
One of the few times you want to speak quieter or whispering is during sexual arousal OR if you’re being tactful and want to draw her closer to you OR you’re whispering in her ear. ( That should go without saying.)
Pause often but not so much that you come off like you’re imitating Captain Kirk.
Lower your voice so it resonates in her ear. Let her feel your voice throughout her body.
Higher pitched noises vibrate quickly they pass through our body quicker and tend to annoy people.
Lower pitched noised vibrate slowly and stay within our bodies longer.
If you want a woman to feel something, those low-pitched noises you create while you’re talking to her, can and will have an attractive impact.
Project calmness and control your breathing for the full effect.
Those are ALL things you can practice and they can be learned.
No matter how big or small you are, how much you make, or what you do, HOW you project your voice or use it to create attraction is something practically every guy can learn.
This is also an easy way to gain a woman’s interest and have her lingering close.
For example, let’s say she’s close enough to hear you and your words are literally capturing her attention. You’ll soon notice how she begins to lean in more and she won’t even know she’s doing it.
She’ll not only await your next words but also look forward to hearing from you day-to-day. She’ll hear YOUR voice in her head when she’s thinking about you. (Get a woman thinking about you AND feeling something AND hearing your voice in her head, over time this will create attraction.)
You can also excite a woman enough to get her sexually aroused through your voice so don’t be surprised if you see it happening when you’re not even talking about sex.
Let’s talk a little about eye contact because you’re going to need it with your voice to make a bigger impact. At least while you’re face to face.
Make subtle eye contact. Don’t go all “crazy eyes” on her.
Let your eyes wander a little but make sure you connect with her eyes enough to show her, you’re not scared of eye contact.
This is VERY important because in nature, when eyes meet, it either means fight or flee. Since you’re not interested in fighting her AND you don’t want to act cowardly or that you’re afraid of beauty, direct eye contact will subconsciously show her you have confidence, strength, maturity, sexuality, and yes, experience too.
You must also learn to look around the room or wherever you are while you’re talking to her.
You must be comfortable and at ease and taking in your surroundings casually will convey your comfort. She in turn will also begin to feel extremely relaxed and comfortable talking with you.
Again, you can practice everything here with everyone.
You are not limited to the woman you want.
This type of communication works on EVERYONE in many situations and when done right, makes a clear statement of personal confidence. It can literally “get you more” and increase your social status.
Yes, it really is this simple. Read this page several times and get practicing immediately.
Listen to you voice.
Record it if you must and play it back.
Practice a smoldering look in the mirror. This is where you look slightly down, squint, gently lift one eyebrow (just a little) and gaze across to her while you begin to talk and then lean back and relax.
Today we’ve only covered your voice and not the words BUT if you can get a handle on everything here you WILL notice a shift on how women respond to you.
How they want to listen to you.
How they look forward to hearing your voice and so much more.
I have also (most likely) left out some things so feel free to ask away or tell us something that has worked for you or anything which was missed today.