I used to chase women all the time. I used to be terrible with women or more accurately, attracting women I actually wanted to date.
It’s easy to see how those two statements or “lack of results” are connected because… in the world of attraction, “chasing” or “being chased” has no real place.
Women don’t “fall’ for guys who chase them.
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The absolute rule to follow in the world of attraction is simple: If a woman is running from you, if her only choice is to flee or fight (reject you) then you are chasing her. According to the nice guy approach to attraction – n chasing women is NOT allowed by any means whatsoever even if it means giving up on certain women who “say” that is what they want or who claim “men” are supposed to court women. Do this instead.
My philosophy on dating has grown over the years. It has evolved above and beyond “playing games” because, among many other reasons, the more games you play, the more you’ll find yourself meeting people who will play along with you.
The less “dating” and “attracting” games you play with women the less likely you’ll get them played back on you and generally, the better chance you’ll have of meeting someone who is just as real and upfront as you are with them.
In my view of life – you will always get back what you give out which obviously includes your dating life.
The “nice guy approach to attracting” women means you must understand these few facts:
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While I do like playing games and having fun, dating is not a game. There are many more beneficial ways to become successful in dating which to me means, finding a great quality girlfriend, entering a more secure happy relationship, and possibly finding the woman of your dreams. Learn how you can avoid playing games or playing women and still become a more attractive good guy.
Here’s the scenario. You’re out with your beautiful girlfriend at the beach.
There are (obviously) lots of women in bikinis swimming, walking around, catching a tan, hanging out, and soaking up the warm sun.
You’re a guy and women who are barely dressed and showing lots of skin are very attractive; understandably it’s very hard not to look. It may also be a little tough to not check some of them out, especially the ones who are right in your view or who walk past your beach blanket.
It’s clear that if you were there hanging out with your guys friends you may be inclined to get your fair share of looks because let’s face it, EVERYONE likes to look at a beautiful bodies… man or woman.
How are you going to handle the situation?
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Men often struggle in situations where there are lots of beautiful women around and his eye might wander or check them out when he’s with his girlfriend. How do you handle the situation? Which type of guy are you? If you want to learn how to get through these moment like a real attractive man would, make sure you read it all the way to the end.